50 Shades of Sex Positions: Adding new spices to the mix

ife’s all about adding a little spice, right? Think about it: Friends, those perfect beach days, even your trusty manicure—some things just get better with each repeat. But when it comes to your bedroom escapades, well, they don’t thrive on reruns. Even the hottest chemistry can fizzle without a dash of novelty.

In a nutshell, your brain craves the thrill of the new, and for many, that brain plays a starring role in the bedroom adventures. Routine can be the enemy of intimacy. Exploring new territories beneath the sheets ramps up emotional connection and invites partners to take chances and grow together. It’s not just about new sex positions; it’s about being vulnerable and building trust, inside and outside the boudoir.

And let’s not forget about those who might need a little extra TLC. If you find yourself thinking “ouch” when the topic of sex arises, it’s time to explore more comfortable positions. This goes for folks with limited mobility, those with chronic pain, or anyone experiencing discomfort during intimacy. But here’s the real kicker—even when you’ve found that perfect pain-free position, don’t get too comfy. There’s a world of possibilities out there, some that might even defy your wildest imagination!

So, what if you’re flying solo? Well, my friend, you can add some adventure to your solo sessions too. You know yourself better than anyone else, so dedicate some quality time to uncover what really gets you going. No pressure to please anyone else. There’s a whole universe of positions to explore while you’re exploring yourself. And when you’re ready to bring someone else into the mix, you’ll be the director, knowing precisely what you want and how to communicate it.

Now, the question remains: where to begin? How about with any of these 50 mind-blowing positions that promise to leave you utterly amazed? Most of these are suitable for vaginal or anal sex, and some for self-please. This is just a few of the many variations you can try. Be creative!

1. 69 – The Yin-Yang Delight

How to do it: One partner lies flat on their back while the other climbs on top, facing the opposite direction, creating the number 69. Genitals meet mouths, and the fun begins. Alternatively, try it side by side for a twist. It only works well if both people are the same height, and it’s usual for the man to be underneath – but find your own preference. Why: It’s a double dose of pleasure—giving and receiving simultaneously. Make it sizzle: Sure, the main event is the mouth-to-genitals action, but don’t hesitate to get handsy. The bottom partner can elevate their game with a sex wedge, like the Dame Pillo. And the one on top? They might want to bring a versatile toy to the party, like the Vedo Quaker Anal Vibe, for extra sensations.

2. Corkscrew – Twist and Shout

How to do it: The receiver rests on their hip and forearm at the edge of a bed or bench, thighs tightly pressed together. The giver stands, straddles the receiver, and goes to town from behind. Why: Those locked thighs make for a snug fit, allowing for some intense action. Make it hotter: Let the receiver take charge, matching the tempo with a bit of hip thrusting.

3. Face-Off – Eye Contact Extraordinaire

How to do it: The giving partner sits comfortably on a chair or the edge of the bed while the receiver faces them, seated on their lap. Why: In this setup, the receiver holds the reins on the angle and depth, and it’s perfect for those marathon sessions. Make it hotter: Let your hands do the talking. Once seated, explore each other’s bodies for added excitement.

4. Doggy Style – Going Deep

How to do it: The receiver gets on all fours while the giver kneels behind them, ready for action (like a humping dog, you get it). Why: This position is all about deep penetration and easy access to the G-spot. Make it hotter: Vulva owners can add some clitoral stimulation to the mix or ask their partner to lend a helping hand. And hey, why not experiment with temperature play? An ice cube down the spine, perhaps? The woman and try doing all the movement and the man stays still – but I usually find it’s the man who likes to take control here, to get the speed and rhythm and depth right for him. This is one of my favourites.

5. Pretzel Dip – Intimacy Twist

How to do it: The receiver lies on their side while the giver kneels between their thighs, with the receiver’s top leg resting on one of the giver’s thighs. Why: It combines the depth of doggy style with face-to-face intimacy. For those not into penetration, the receiver can opt for grinding instead. Make it hotter: Nipple clamps, anyone? Or how about an ice cube on your partner’s nipples for a thrilling sensation?

6. Flatiron – The Snug Embrace

How to do it: The receiver lies face down on the bed, legs straight, hips slightly raised. The giver enters from behind. Why: This position creates a tight fit, making everything feel larger than life. Make it hotter: Nibble or bite your partner’s shoulders and neck for an added kick of sensation. Some girls, like me, love being pinned down and fucked hard like this.

7. G-Whiz – Target Practice

How to do it: The receiver lies on their back with legs resting on the giver’s shoulders. The giver enters from the front. Why: It’s a winner for vulva owners, offering G-spot targeting with raised legs. Make it hotter: Add some rocking motion to the mix for even more thrills.

8. Cowgirl’s Helper – Rodeo With a Twist

How to do it: Picture the classic Cowgirl sex position. The receiver takes the reins, kneeling on top, and glides up and down those thighs. But here’s the twist: the giver lends a hand, supporting some of the receiver’s weight and getting a good grip on those hips or thighs as they rise and fall. Why: This sex position goes easy on the receiver’s legs, making the path to climax smoother. And if the giver has a penis, it’s a handy trick to extend the pleasure ride. Make it hotter: Mix it up with a combo of shallow and deep thrusts to tickle all the right nerve endings. Again, I love this position as I get lots of control of the angle and the guy can massage my tits too.

9. Wheelbarrow – Up for the Challenge

How to do it: The receiver gets on all fours, and the giver swoops in, lifting them up by the pelvis. The receiver uses their thighs to secure a hold around the giver’s waist. It can be very difficult if the woman is heavy or the body slippery with oil or sweat. Why: Besides giving your arms an epic workout, this position offers some seriously deep penetration. Make it hotter: For a change of scenery (and to give those arms a break), try shifting to a table or the edge of the bed for a more relaxed twist.

10. Leap Frog – Ribbit and Thrust

How to do it: It’s a modified doggy style affair. The receiver gets down on all fours, keeping those hips raised, while resting their head and arms on the bed. The giver slides in from behind. A favourite of mine too. This if great for anal too. Why: This position equals deep penetration and a comfy pillow for the receiver. Make it hotter: Vulva owners, this is your chance to take matters into your own hands, quite literally. Add some clitoral stimulation with your digits, as I often do – or a toy.

11. Magic Mountain – Summit of Sensation

How to do it: The giver sits back, legs bent, leaning on their hands and forearms. The receiver mirrors the stance and scoots closer until you’re touching. Why: It’s all about that intense eye contact, and vulva owners can get some grind action going against the giver’s pelvis. Make it hotter: Go wild with some ice play by sliding cubes down your partner’s chest, letting that chilly sensation collect at the base of their pelvis.

12. Cowgirl – Saddle Up for Pleasure

How to do it: The receiver takes the reins, kneeling on top, and gliding up and down those eager thighs. To ease the weight, the receiver can lean back and rely on their thighs for support. I like this as I’m in charge. The guy can Why: By being the boss in this setup, the receiver can prolong their partner’s climax and crank up their own pleasure. Make it hotter: Change up the tempo and pressure, lean in for some chest-to-chest action, and throw in a bit of nipple play and neck kisses. And don’t forget to switch it up with side-to-side grinding—Ariana Grande style!

13. Reverse Cowgirl – Turn the Tables

How to do it: The giver lies back while the receiver straddles them, facing away. I love this and guys do too, as they can see my ass and see their cock sliding in a out. Why: This position lets the receiver take charge, setting the pace and rhythm to their liking. Make it hotter: For better leverage, the receiver can tuck their knees and shins inside their partner’s legs under the thighs.

14. Cowboy – Tight Squeeze

How to do it: The receiver lies back, and the giving partner straddles them. The giver then carefully enters through the tight opening created by the receiver’s partially closed legs. It’s pretty difficult unless the guy is very long, and the angle may not suit everyone. Why: Tight quarters make for intense penetration. Make it hotter: Take it up a notch with some light bondage by having the giver gently hold the receiver’s wrists. If you’re into BDSM, consider adding a bit of choking or nipple play with adjustable pressure nipple clamps. And hey, toys designed for clitoral stimulation also work wonders on nipples!

15. Ballet Dancer – Dancing With Desire

How to do it: Balancing on one foot, the receiver faces their partner and wraps one leg around the giver’s waist while getting some extra support. This is very difficult unless the man is small or stands with legs open to get ‘in’. Why: This position gives you some quality face time while keeping things intimate. Make it hotter: If you’re particularly flexible, place your raised leg on your partner’s shoulder for even deeper penetration or clitoral stimulation during outercourse.

16. Missionary – Classic and Classy

How to do it: The receiver lies on their back while the giver stretches out on top. This is the ‘classic’ that most men end up doing as they can take control, the woman can relax and the guy gets to see the woman’s face to kiss and their tits to suck and lick. Why: Missionary might be vanilla, but it’s versatile, effective, and oh-so-elegant. Make it hotter: Spice things up by experimenting with different leg angles for a change in sensations.

17. Cross-Booty – X Marks the Spot

How to do it: The giving partner enters from the missionary position, then slides their chest and legs off the receiver’s body, forming an “X” with their limbs. This works more in theory than practice. Unless the guy is very long, it is hard to get in – and at that angle. Why: This position lets you feel more of your partner’s body in action. Make it hotter: Utilise this unique angle to treat your partner to a sensual massage on their back, butt, or legs—it’s a win-win!

18. The Caboose – Fantasy Express

How to do it: The giver sits on a bed or chair, and the receiver backs into their lap, creating a cozy spooning setup. This can be hard work to move though. If the woman has something to support her arms on, maybe she can do ‘dips’ to raise up and down. Why: When you can’t see your partner, fantasising becomes easier and adds to the excitement. Make it hotter: Vulva owners can flex those pelvic floor muscles for a tighter grip on the giver, or they can indulge in some clitoral stimulation with fingers, their partner’s fingers, or a well-chosen toy. This also gives the man access to your breasts from behind, and to kiss, lick or bite the woman’s ears, neck and shoulders.

19. Scoop Me Up – Side-by-Side Delight (spooning)

How to do it: Both partners lie on their sides, facing the same way. The receiver slightly lifts their knees, while the giving partner slides up from behind, entering them. This is another favourite of mine – for pussy or anal fucking. It lets both people rest and relax a little. Why: This position amps up the skin-to-skin contact for maximum stimulation. Make it hotter: The giving partner can use their hands to hold onto the receiver’s shoulders, adding intensity and depth to each thrust. The partner can also pull the woman’s hair behind or gently choke, or reach around and play with the breasts.

20. Reverse Scoop – Spooning With a Twist

How to do it: From the missionary position, without disengaging, roll over together onto your sides, supporting your upper bodies with your arms. It can be hard to move though. Why: This position delivers a satisfying full-body connection, complete with intimate eye contact. Make it hotter: Try intertwining your legs or indulging in some below-the-belt exploration.

21. Golden Arch – Lean Into Ecstasy

How to do it: The giving partner sits with legs outstretched, and the receiver parks it on top with knees bent over those inviting thighs. Then, both of you lean back. Why: It’s all about the view! You get a front-row seat to each other’s full bodies. Plus, you’re in the driver’s seat for depth, speed, and angle control. Make it hotter: Vulva owners, have your partner lend a hand (literally) to rub your clitoris, or take matters into your own hands. Lean back a bit further for some extra G-spot action.

22. The Seashell – Unleash Your Inner Mermaid

How to do it: The receiver reclines with legs raised high, ankles crossed behind their head, and the giver enters from a missionary position. Why: It’s a woman’s playground, with unrestricted access to work that clitoris magic. Make it hotter: Women have the giver “ride high” with their pubic bone tantalising your clitoris, or “ride low” to give your G-spot the attention it craves, whether with their head, a strap-on, dildo, or finger.

23. Butter Churner – Churning Up the Heat (Piledriver)

How to do it: The receiver lies on their back, legs raised and folded over so their ankles rest beside their head, while the giver squats and dips their weapon of choice (penis, strap-on, dildo, or finger) in and out. This is also known as the pile driver. I like it personally, but it can be a strange angle for the guys. Why: Beyond the eye contact, the blood rushing to your head amps up the ecstasy factor. Make it hotter: Dribble some chocolate syrup (yes, really) into the mix. Engaging more senses intensifies the entire experience.

24. The Chairman – Sit, Ride, and Delight

How to do it: The giving partner takes a seat at the edge of the bed, and the receiver hops on, facing away. Receiver leans back, creating delicious full-body contact. Why: For vulva owners, this position is like a treasure map leading to your G-spot. Meanwhile, your hands are free to explore the scrotum, perineum, or clitoris. Make it hotter: Bring those knees closer to your chest for added support with your feet on the bed.

25. The Pinball Wizard – Tilt and Thrust

How to do it: The receiver assumes a partial bridge position, weight on their shoulders. The giving partner enters from a kneeling stance. Why: If the receiver sports a vulva, this setup offers prime access for the giving partner to stimulate the clitoris and pamper the mons pubis. Make it hotter: Raise one leg against your partner’s shoulder for a deeper dive.

26. Valedictorian – Form a Winning “V”

How to do it: Starting in the missionary position, the receiver raises and extends their legs straight, forming a “V.” Why: It’s all about that sweet genital-to-genital connection. Make it hotter: For extra flair, grab those ankles. It adds stability and an extra stretch to amplify the sensations.

27. Spork – Blend and Savour

How to do it: The receiver lies back, raising their right leg to allow the giving partner to slip between their legs at a 90-degree angle. The receiver’s left leg can stretch out or bend to control penetration depth. For a rear-entry twist, the receiver can lie on their stomach, bend one leg, and welcome the giving partner in between. Why: From the spork’s embrace, the receiver can lift their top leg, resting it on the giving partner’s shoulder. For women, this is the gateway to clitoral delight. Make it hotter: Sync up your breathing. Take turns leading the inhales and exhales, creating an unspoken rhythm of intimacy that deepens the connection.

28. Seated Wheelbarrow – Rollin’ with Intensity

How to do it: The giving partner takes a perch at the edge of a bed or chair, while the receiver cosies up, planting their bum right on the giver’s lap. The receiver’s hands find their home on the floor as they stretch their legs out behind the giver’s waist (a little thigh support from the giver can work wonders). Now, time to pump away! Why: This position is all about diving deep into pleasure. Make it hotter: Get rhythmic with those pelvic muscles, synchronised pleasure awaits! Spank the woman’s ass.

29. Table Top – Where Surfaces Spark Joy

How to do it: No need for an actual table—any convenient surface at crotch level will do. The giver enters while the receiver takes a seat or reclines at the edge of said table, counter, or bed. One of my favourites too. Just ensure the height is right! Why: It’s the perfect setup for some face-to-face action. Plus, if you and your partner have a substantial height difference, this brings you to eye level. Make it hotter: The receiver can lower their legs and rest their feet on their partner’s chest, in front of their shoulders. This puts the receiver in control of tempo and depth.

30. Champagne Room – The Classy Regulator

How to do it: The giving partner assumes their seat, and the receiver hops on top, facing away. The receiver leans forward this time (as opposed to leaning back, a la The Chairman). Why: It’s all about that pace and intensity control for the receiver. Make it hotter: Take it to the stairs or the edge of the tub. It may require a touch of skill, but hey, practice makes perfect, right?

31. The Om – Embrace the Tantra (lotus)

How to do it: The giving partner sits cross-legged, yoga-style, while the receiver snuggles up in their lap, facing each other. The receiver’s legs wrap around the giver, hugging for support. It can be difficult to get the man in, if not long. Why: This is the lotus position, perfect for tantric adventures. In this setup, it’s all about rocking, not thrusting. Make it hotter: Lock eyes and sink into each other’s depths for an extra “oh” in the big O.

32. Upstanding Citizen – The Stand-Up Showdown

How to do it: The receiver takes the saddle, wrapping their legs around the giver’s body (knees unlocked, thighs slightly apart). The giver stands and lends support in their arms. You can start on the bed and keep the action moving without disengaging. (Or, for the bold ones, receivers can hop aboard from a standing position!). This is best for use with light/small girls!

Why: It’s the position straight out of steamy romance movies—aka, a must-try. Make it hotter: Have the giver press the receiver against a wall—very carefully.

33. The Spider – Get Tangled Up in Ecstasy

How to do it: Both partners sit on the bed, legs toward each other, arms back for support. Now move in close until the receiver’s hips take center stage on the giver’s penis or strap-on. The receiver’s hips rest between the giver’s spread legs, knees bent, feet outside the giver’s hips, flat on the bed. Then, it’s time to rock back and forth. Why: You can maintain eye contact while enjoying the main event. Make it hotter: The receiver can grab the giver’s hands and hoist themselves up into a squatting position, while the giver leans back. Alternatively, the giver can stay seated upright, pulling the receiver against their chest for the Lazy Man position (see below).

34. The Good Ex – Rekindle the Flame

How to do it: Both partners sit facing each other with legs extended forward. The giving partner’s right leg crosses over the receiver’s left, and the receiver’s right leg goes over the giver’s left. Come together so the giver can enter. Now both of you lie back, your legs forming an X. Slow, leisurely gyrations take the place of thrusts. It is a kind of scissoring. Again, the angle could be hard for the man. Why: Prolonged, slow lovemaking builds your arousal, and shallow thrusts can awaken those nerve endings in the head of their penis (if applicable). Make it hotter: Reach out and hold hands, drawing each other closer for synchronized pelvic movements. Take turns sitting up and lying back without altering the rhythm.

35. The Lazy Man – Let the Games Begin

How to do it: Place some comfy pillows behind the giving partner’s back and have them take a seat on the bed with legs outstretched. (Got a trusty sex pillow? Bring it into play!) Now the receiving partner straddles their waist, planting their feet on the bed. The receiver bends their knees to lower themselves onto their partner, guiding the penis or strap-on. By pressing on their feet’s balls and releasing, they can elevate and lower themselves onto the shaft at their own pace. It is like the lotus/om Why: This position hands control to the receiver while maintaining maximum intimacy. For vulva owners, imagine the giver’s penis or strap-on as a versatile tool for clitoral stimulation. Make it hotter: From this setup, both of you can ease into the Spider position or its more challenging cousin, the Good Ex.

36. Snow Angel – Making Flurries in the Bedroom

How to do it: The receiver lays back, lifting their butt into the air (a wedge or sex pillow helps get the angle just right). Then, the giving partner lays down on top and slips in from behind. It is a very difficult position for the man, bending the cock backwards! Why: This position delivers super-deep penetration and a snug fit that both parties can savour. Make it hotter: Receivers can reach back and wrap their hand around the shaft for added control over the giver’s depth. Or they can experiment with different angles of their butt to fine-tune the sensation.

37. Wrapped Lotus – The Blossom of Intimacy

How to do it: The giving partner sits cross-legged, and the receiver climbs into their lap, facing each other, with legs wrapped around the giver’s back. The giving partner enters, and the receiver gets their grind on against the giver’s pelvis. Why: This position is a master of face-to-face intimacy. There’s also plenty of room for creativity—stimulating different erogenous zones on each other’s upper bodies, like the head, neck, and face. Make it hotter: Invite them to lavish your nipples with attention, and let those hands roam. And roam some more…and more. You get the idea.

38. The Snake – Slip and Slide to Bliss

How to do it: The receiver reclines on their stomach, lifting their booty (a wedge or sex pillow can help with the angle). Next, the giving partner lies on top and slides in from behind. I love this position. Why: This position serves up deep penetration and a snug fit, a recipe for heightened pleasure for both. Make it hotter: Receivers can reach back and grasp the shaft, enhancing their control over how deep the giver goes. Experimenting with different butt angles can also turn up the heat.

39. Woman Astride – Giddy-Up with a Twist

How to do it: Imagine cowgirl, but with a spicy twist. The receiver takes the reins, straddling their partner while they enter from a laid-back position. Then, it’s time for the receiver to lean back, anchoring their hands on the bed for support, creating a cool 45-degree angle with the giving partner’s legs. Why: For vulva owners, this shift in angle is like a treasure map to the G-spot, with total control over the pace and depth of the adventure. Plus, easy access to the clitoris for the giving partner. Make it hotter: If you’re rocking a vulva, give yourself a hand (literally) with the “V stroke.” Create a V shape with the index and ring fingers of one hand, sandwiching the clitoris between them and your partner’s penis, strap-on, or a dildo. Glide your fingers down with a rocking motion.

40. Stand and Deliver – The Upright Delight

How to do it: With both of you standing, the receiver gracefully bends at the waist while the giver steps up from behind. I love this position too, maybe touching the floor or something low-down, for support.

Why: For women, the gentle bend amps up the snugness factor, cranking up the intensity of the friction.

Make it hotter: If women are in the mood for it, they can ask for some clitoral stimulation. Alternatively, the giver can playfully tie their partner’s hands together with a silky scarf for a dash of intrigue.The man can also finger the woman’s ass from this position.

41. Coital Alignment Technique – The Pleasure Alignment

How to do it: The receiver lounges on their back, twining their ankles around the giving partner’s calves. The receiver flexes their legs to pull their partner closer. This is a laying-down missionary position. Some women like the weight of the partner’s body on them.

Why: This position is like a magic wand for bringing the giving partner’s penis or dildo closer to the pleasure palace.

Make it hotter: Savour the journey by taking it slow, indulging in dirty talk, and locking eyes—it’s all about building anticipation.

42. Mutual Masturbation – Let’s Watch and Learn

How to do it: Find a cozy spot facing each other or side by side, taking turns pleasuring yourselves while one revels in the show. I like this position as I can put on a show of my squirting, and get exactly the touch I want, but it is also useful to guide and teach the man as to what you like.

Why: Even though it might not fit the traditional “position” mould, mutual masturbation is an act of pure intimacy. You’re offering a front-row seat to your solo pleasure.

Make it hotter: If you’re willing to relinquish control, let your partner direct your solo performance. They can instruct you on how to touch or tease yourself.

43. Belly Down – The Intimate Grind

How to do it: Get comfy lying on your stomach with your hands nestled between your legs. Engage your legs to grind them together and sway your hips up and down, letting your clitoris and pubic mound revel in the action. The man can watch, or rub against you. Even better is to put a pillow under your hips to push against.

Why: Simple yet sensational satisfaction.

Make it hotter: If you’re up for a partner’s participation, incorporate this technique into various rear-entry positions like the Flatiron or the Leapfrog for a combo of internal and external pleasure.

44. Bubble the Fun – Tub-Time Delight

How to do it: Submerge your body, allowing your legs to dangle out of the tub. Start by indulging in some self-caressing up top before diving below the surface. Remember, doing get soap inside you, as it upsets the delicate pH, chemical balance, of your vagina.

Why: Bathing in a warm, fragrant tub is the ultimate stress reliever, mood enhancer, and libido booster.

Make it hotter: Spice things up by introducing a waterproof vibrator or, if vibrators aren’t your thing, make use of your detachable showerhead (might I suggest the “pulse” setting?). Steady streams of water on the clitoris can be incredibly pleasurable.

45. Look and Learn – Mirror, Mirror on the Wall

How to do it: Armed with a hand mirror, get comfy in a chair with one leg propped up on the bed or couch. With your newfound vantage point, explore beyond your sensitive clitoris to discover those uncharted erogenous zones. Dive into the opening, venture inside, and trace along the back wall of your vagina with your fingers, applying varying pressure until you strike gold.

Why: It may seem elementary, but you’re seeing yourself from a whole new perspective. It’s a lesson in unlocking multiple routes to pleasure, reducing the frustration of being one-position-only.

Make it hotter: Level up the experience with your favourite sex toy, or invite your partner to join the fun, incorporating moves from the Seashell or Butter Churner positions. Hey! How about using mirrors in other places in the room while seeing to yourself, or with a partner during that hot sex session. It’s hot to see things form another point of view.

46. Circle Perk – Spin the Sensation Wheel

How to do it: From a seated position, use your finger to trace a circle around your clitoris. Start slow and gradually increase speed and pressure as your desires dictate.

Why: If direct clitoral stimulation feels too intense for extended pleasure, this spinning sensation could be your ticket to paradise.

Make it hotter: Switch things up by tracing the alphabet with your fingertip on your clit, offering a tantalising variety of sensations. How about teaching your partner to do this for you?!

47. Couch Grind – Sofa Sensations

How to do it: Straddle the arm of a cushy chair or couch, or perch on the edge of a table or desk adorned with a plush towel or blanket. Begin with subtle hip movements, building up momentum. You could also rub your clit on the corner of a table, or other furniture.

Why: Perfect for those who crave steady, solid pressure on the clitoris.

Make it hotter: To keep it classy and less “American Pie,” grip the arm with your thighs while your partner enters from behind. Just be cautious not to break any furniture.

48. Get to the G-Spot – Treasure Hunt for Two

How to do it: Lie on your back and bring your knees up toward your chest. Insert one or two fingers deep into your vagina. Upon withdrawal, press against the front of your vagina and urethra while curling your finger in a beckoning motion.

Why: This motion might initially trigger a slight urge to urinate, but with practice and several sessions, you can expect to experience a warm, pleasurable sensation.

Make it hotter: Try it with only one leg bent to your chest, extending the other, for a variation on the sensation or get you partner to rub you.

49. Tap Dance – Rhythmic Rhapsody

How to do it: Let’s set the stage for this delightful number. Lie on one side with one leg stretched out and the other playfully bent. With one hand, create a gentle parting of the curtains (your labia) and apply a tiny droplet of lube to your exposed clitoris. Now, with the opposite hand, step right up and start tapping, like you’re dancing your way to pleasure-town.

Why: Sometimes, it’s not about the traditional rubdown; it’s the quick, intense sensations of a tap dance that steal the show, especially for those who prefer a lighter touch.

Make it hotter: Want to crank up the heat? Increase the tempo or intensity of your taps for an encore that will leave you breathless. Alternatively, invite your partner to join the act and tap into a duet of passion. I love to you a rotating ‘tongue-like’ toy to quickly bring me to orgasm. Involve your partner using their fingers, tongue or a toy.

50. Face-Sitting – The Throne of Ecstasy

How to do it: Buckle up for a royal experience! Have your partner comfortably lie down, like a loyal subject awaiting their queen. Slowly descend upon their eager face, positioning yourself for maximum delight. Find your balance and let your weight create an intimate connection that’s simply regal. This is one of my all-time favourite things to do, and squirt all over the guys face as a cum.

Why: Face-sitting is like claiming your own throne of ecstasy. It offers a direct line to your pleasure, allowing you to take charge and set the pace, while your partner becomes your willing servant, devoted to your every desire.

Make it hotter: Experiment with different angles and movements to discover the perfect rhythm for your sovereign satisfaction. Encourage your partner to use their hands or tongue to elevate the experience, turning your throne into a realm of unimaginable pleasure.

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