Sex Tips for Men: Ultimate Pleasure Guide.

Welcome to the ultimate guide on how to bring the heat to the bedroom and leave the woman in your life begging for more! I’m Asha, and I’m here to share my years of experience as an adult performer and sex coach. But remember, making love isn’t just about the destination; it’s about the journey. So, let’s dive into some fun-loving, pleasure-packed sex tips that work every time.

1. Invest in advance.

Sex isn’t just about what happens in the bedroom; it’s a complex dance that begins long before you slide between the sheets. It starts with a glance that lingers, a playful touch on the waist, and a genuine interest in your partner’s thoughts and desires. In fact, the art of seduction lies in wooing not just the body, but also the mind. Cultivating a connection through cultural and intelligent conversations, sprinkled with a dash of wit, is the secret ingredient to igniting passion. It’s about showing that you care, not just about their physical needs, but their emotional ones too. It’s about those regular compliments that make them feel desired, the willingness to lend a helping hand and share out the chores, the unwavering emotional support, and sometimes, even the surprise gifts that say, “I cherish you.” Understanding your partner’s love language and learning to speak it fluently can set the stage for an electrifying encounter long before the first caress. So guys – be loveable all the time; be her sunshine on a rainy day; aim for the best version of you possible. That says ‘I care about you too’.

2. Stay Fresh and Clean:

No one likes a sweaty surprise in the bedroom. Groom yourself down there to keep things neat. I personally prefer a fully shaven man, underarms, balls, ass and around the cock. As a naturist, with a focus on health and hygiene, it feels and seems so much cleaner and fresher to me – and makes kissing, licking and sucking there a whole lot more pleasant. If you’ve had a long day, maybe invite your partner for a quick shower to kickstart the foreplay. It’s the little things that make a big difference in setting the mood. Use only a little soap – and a scent she likes. Don’t use soap on your intimate areas as it is not good for it, and no woman wants to taste a bar of soap. The same goes for perfume/aftershave/cologne. Keep it natural: Let’s your pheromones do the talking.

3. Set the Mood with Music:

Don’t let silence dominate your bedroom. Play some seductive music in the background to set the mood right and find your rhythm together. Get the lighting low and sensual: I’m thinking candles or table/floor lamps. Don’t turn the bedroom into a clinically bright white hospital operating theatre. Create a romantic atmosphere with candles, bubble baths, or silk sheets. Women appreciate a loving and affectionate setting; They feel safe, secure and appreciated.

4. Explore Her Body:

Before you dive in, take your time to explore her entire body. Don’t rush to the main event; let your hands and lips wander. Delaying gratification and building anticipation can drive her wild!

5. Foreplay, Foreplay, Foreplay:

Don’t skip the essential warm-up – foreplay. Women need time to get fully aroused and ready for action. Rushing into penetration, in any form, can be uncomfortable for her. Indulge in foreplay to ensure a memorable experience.

6. Breathe into Her:

Get up close and personal by breathing deeply near her earlobes. Breath play and your scent and pheromones can heighten intimacy and passion. A little extra closeness can go a long way.

7. Pay Attention to Erogenous Zones:

A woman’s sensitive spots are scattered all over her body. Ever woman reacts differently to different areas, but I mean they really are all over her body. from behind, nibble the ears, lick around, bite gently and kiss Explore areas like her neck, shoulders and back. Perhaps a gentle massage will help. Delicately stroke the backs if her legs – especially behind the knees. Slowly stroke her back. You might like to hug her from behind and delicately stroke her waist, tummy and under her breasts, and then slowly over her breasts. Don’t just squeeze! That can be painful.

8. Take Your Time:

I know you guys are thinking you want to get yourself seen to and enjoy the main course, but wait. A woman is not meant to be treated as fast food, heated in a microwave in 30 seconds on high power. A woman is more of a casserole, slow baked in a warm oven. Tease and tantalise before going all the way. She will love you for it.

9. Go Down on Her:

Being selfless in bed is crucial. If she enjoys it, going down on her can be incredibly pleasurable for both. Kiss and lick down her body, pausing at the pelvis with your lips and tongue. You’ll be amazed at how quickly you can turn up the heat. Use oral action as foreplay or switch things up in the middle of sex to keep the passion alive. Explore the whole area with your tongue first, licking around the outer labia (lips), sucking a little on the public area and lips, and move your whole tongue up and down and round and round. Fully explore the area, If you do slip your tongue in build desire by gently slipping in and out, making her crave more. The art of teasing can make her beg for your full attention. Focus on the top of the clitoris, round and round and up and down to see what she likes. She may well have a number of orgasms for this.

If you can, at the same time, reach up to stroke her breasts.

10. Ladies first:

If oral is not her things, then use the hands on her pussy first. Again, do not enter until you have fully awoken the area. With a lubed finger start gently rubbing her vulva, pussy, area: The lips and the clitoris. Rubbing the clitoris in a steady rhythm, first slow and getting faster, will hopefully bring her to orgasm. Remember: Focus on the woman’s pleasure first. Women can have multiple orgasms before sex. Experienced men will even suck or lick her tits while fingering her clit, or kiss her or her neck.

11. G hits the spot

Once the woman has had a clitoral orgasm, you can try to slip in 2 fingers in a ‘come hither’ motion towards the front of the vagina and you might feel there a soft fleshy part inside. This is in slightly different places in each woman and may be more or less defined, but that could be the g-spot you are touching : The Skein’s gland. Stroke that while rubbing her clit again and you could bring her off to a g-spot orgasm which may even make her squirt. Not all women can – and that is not the aim or goal. The focus is on what makes the woman happy.

12. Knock at the door.

Now you have arrived at the address and worked your way up the path to the door, don’t just barge in. Knock first. I know you are just dying to get inside of her, but keep it sensual, teasing and sexy. When you are hard, and ready to enter, first rub your cock up and down her clit, her pussy and slowly tease as your enter. Be sure you lube if needed.

13. Make Eye Contact:

Connect with her by locking eyes during the act, especially if in ‘missionary’ position. It enhances intimacy and intensifies the experience. But if it gets awkward, simply close your eyes and savour the sensations, or lean forward and lick her tits, or body.

14. Take Her Cue:

Pay attention to her responses and body language. Avoid asking too many questions during sex – it can be a mood killer. Instead, tune in to her moans and movements to know what she desires.

15. Use Your Hands:

Don’t let your hands idle – caress, touch, stroke and explore her body. Be attentive to her needs and desires.

16. Master Delaying Ejaculation:

Work on your stamina – aim for at least 20 minutes of action. Exercise and good diet, enough sleep, little or no smoking, stress relief techniques – they all help improve blood circulation and general health – leading to harder erections and longer-lasting performance. Hit the gym to build stamina and boost your confidence. Feeling good in your skin is a turn-on for both you and your partner.

17. Don’t Stress About Erections:

Relax and focus on her pleasure. Stress can mess with your performance. Remember, your little guy will rise to the occasion when it’s time. Learn your own body and mind.

18. Talk Dirty and Fantasise:

Keep the passion alive by indulging in dirty talk and sexual fantasies. Compliments and shared desires can stoke the flames of passion. This is deeply personal so talk with your partner beforehand as to what you like and don’t like.

19. Mix It Up:

Variety is the spice of life – and the bedroom. Change your pace and try new things to keep the spark alive. Monotony has no place in the bedroom. If fact, why limit it to the bedroom. What about the car, a forest, a loft, a hay barn, a bathroom, the kitchen, a private garden? So try something new. Keep the excitement alive by experimenting with different positions, role-playing, and other kinks. Spice things up and embrace novelty.

20. Ask Her What She Likes:

Communication is key. Ask her about her preferences and desires, whether you’re in a new relationship or a long-term one. Show that you’re eager to please. Choose the right time for the conversation of course, so it is not a job interview, or in the supermarket, or with people around.

21. Try Sex Toys:

Explore the world of sex toys, from vibrators, dildos and anal plugs to more exotic options. It adds a new dimension to your intimacy. Maybe she wants to try DP (double penetration): try a butt-plug or dildo in her ass while you are in her pussy. Talk about it.

22. Role Play:

Revive the spark by indulging in role-play scenarios. Playing out fantasies can bring excitement to long-term relationships: So long as there is agreement, willingness and communication.

23. Occasional Quickies:

“Well,” you might be thinking, “sex will rarely happen if we need 2 hrs for a long sensual sex session”. Quickies can be just as passionate and intense, perfect for those busy days when time is of the essence. Pick up the vibe and still always put the woman first.

24. Every Woman Is Different:

Remember, there’s no one-size-fits-all approach to pleasure. Pay attention to her reactions and adapt to what works best for her. Some woman don’t like all the kissing, licking and biting. Some cant reach orgasm that easily (and for some it is of low importance). Some just want to let that animal out and have take them roughly and fuck them hard. Take the time guys, to get the know her, and set the standards high.

With these sex tips in your arsenal, you’re well on your way to becoming a true bedroom superstar. Whether you’re in a long-term relationship or embarking on a new adventure, or this is a quick fun fling, these tips will ensure you leave your partner craving more fun-filled, pleasure-packed nights together. So, go out there and make every encounter sizzle with passion!