Nipple orgasm? Is that even a thing?

Yes, those are my tits.

When it comes to orgasm, most women have an uphill battle. Unfortunately, ladies don’t have the innate ability to simply climax at will – it’s something they have to learn. However, the body also gives them plenty of options in this regard – clitoral, vaginal, anal and even nipple. And it is the latter type of female orgasm that I want to talk about. What is a nipple orgasm, and does it even exist? What are the pathways to achieving it?

What is a nipple orgasm?

First of all – the nipple orgasm is not a myth. It does exist. It is nothing more than bringing a woman to climax by stimulating her breasts. The breasts and the nipples are quite an extensive erogenous zone. This is not the case for every woman, but for most. The possibility of achieving a nipple orgasm is often also increased by breastfeeding, which activates new nerve connections, from the pressure from inside the breast (from the milk ducts), to the particular sucking motions of the baby. In fact, it happens that sometimes breastfeeding mothers experience a nipple orgasm, which makes them feel guilty and ashamed.

Interestingly, nipple orgasm can also be experienced by men, although men are less likely than women to experience this particular category of pleasure – but many men like their nipples squeezed, rubbed, licked or sucked when trying to orgasm.

What else is worth knowing about the nipple orgasm? You need to arm yourself with a huge dose of patience, because it takes much longer to reach a nipple orgasm than it does to induce even a clitoral orgasm.

How to bring a partner to a nipple orgasm?

Bringing a woman to a nipple orgasm largely depends on the partner and their skill and knowledge of their partner’s body. It is the latter that seems to be most important. A nipple orgasm will certainly not be given just by playing with the breasts or even kissing the breasts. Here you need a greater knowledge of your partner’s physiology and what excites her and what does not.

The best time to experiment with nipple orgasm is before menstruation, when a woman’s breasts are sensitive. Of course, many ladies will immediately give up such games, but if she is willing to experiment, that’s the best time.

As before any intercourse, the mood should be taken care of. Partners need to feel comfortable with each other and in the room they are in. The nipple orgasm experiment should start with foreplay – caressing your partner, kissing her on the lips, neck, nape – generally where she likes it.

Going down a zone lower, i.e. to the breasts, which today are the centre of attention, it is worth starting with wetting them with saliva, oil or lube. Then you can move on to massaging them, that is, making circular motions over their surface. A sign that everything is going in the right direction will be nipples that are standing up. Then you can concentrate on licking or teasing them with your fingers. You can run your fingertips over them or make circular motions.

The next step is to discover – or preferably ask your partner – which of your repertoire of movements excited her the most. Once you know what that movement is, just keep going with it. Over time, increase the intensity of the movements, you can even move on to pinching or biting, all in consultation with your partner of course and within her threshold of pleasure and pain. Blend in with that sensual breathing, motions and sounds. Communication is key, both ways.

As communicated earlier, nipple orgasm volume is all about patience, so set yourself up for longer moments spent with your breasts.

Nipple orgasm can be an end in itself, but the caresses described above will also be ideal for foreplay. Erotic paraphernalia such as cooling lube, an ice cube or a nipple clamp, or feathers can be used to tease the nipples. Remember also that not every woman or man is capable of achieving a nipple orgasm. There are times when, despite trying and repeating the whole ceremony, it just turns out not to be the case. Such a situation is also fine. After all, sexual sensations can be sought in many places and through various experiments.

So keep discovering, keep learning about your own body and your partner’s, and make it a sensual fun journey.