Blow Job Bliss: My Fun Guide to Rocking Oral!

Hey lovers, Asha here! As a sexologist aeducator, I’m here to dish out the juiciest tips on how to give an unforgettable blow job. Let’s make it fun, flirty, and oh-so-fabulous! Ready? Let’s get DOWN to my top 10 tips:

1. Start with the Tease The magic begins before you even get to the main event. Light kisses, soft licks, and playful bites along the inner thighs or hips are key. Build anticipation by going slow, letting your partner squirm with excitement. Teasing = tantalizing! Make sexy moans and groans, and tell him how much you want him – That you can’t wait to get that cock in your mouth.

2. Go low and slow
How about some Tea-Bagging? Just lick and suck those call – and bite and pull the skin with your lips (and maybe your teeth a little if he is up for it)

3. Use Your Hands (and Not Just One!) Your mouth is the star, but don’t forget the supporting cast: your hands. Use them to stroke, squeeze, or twist (gently!). Experiment with different grips, motions, and pressures. Keep things coordinated for a rhythm they won’t forget.

4. Moisture is Key Saliva is your best friend. The wetter, the better! Don’t be shy—slurp, spit, and let your tongue slide around. It’s all about that silky, slippery sensation. If you’re feeling extra fancy, you can even add flavored lube to mix things up.

5. Play with Rhythm and Pressure Think of it as a dance—switch between slow, deep movements and faster, shallower strokes. Mix it up by adding suction, tightening your lips, or swirling your tongue. Keep them guessing, and watch how they react to find their favorite moves. You can even bite, side-on, the cock when really hard – See what you both like. It’s all about practice and the more you do it, the deeper you will go and the more confident you will get. Remember to keep up the speed at the end.

6. Breathe and Relax Don’t forget to breathe! If going deep isn’t your thing, don’t stress it. You can create a similar sensation by focusing on the head and using your hand to mimic the rest. If you want to experiment with deeper play, take it slow, relax your throat, and practice controlling your breathing.

7. Eye Contact, Baby! When you’re feeling bold, look up. Eye contact can be super sexy and intimate, making the experience more intense for both of you. It’s like saying, “Yeah, I’m amazing at this, and I know you love it.” Confidence is hot!

8. Don’t Forget the Extras Pay attention to the surrounding areas—balls, perineum, and even the inner thighs. A light touch, gentle massage, or playful lick can send extra shivers down their spine. It’s all about creating a full-body experience. If you are up for it, many men like a finger up their ass, or just grabbing the butt cheeks as you give him head without hands.

9. Communicate and Have Fun! Every body is different, so don’t be afraid to ask your partner what they like. Use moans, hums, or even a playful little giggle to show you’re having fun! The best blow jobs are the ones where you’re enjoying yourself, too (But please, do NOT HUM, sing, tickle, talk about anything other than sex, dont look at the clock, your phone, … the list goes on… Just focus and suck that cock).

10. Take the load
What makes a great lover is a great giver. Do it ’cause you love it, love him, love sex and that means finishing the ‘task at hand’. When he cums (and hopefully gives you warning) – where are you going to take his load? Sometimes I like it over my tits, other times over my face, and sometimes I want him to cum in my mouth and I swallow it down. It’s up to you – just show some love and let that climax be amazing;) !

So, there you have it cocksuckers! A fun and flirty blow job doesn’t need to be complicated. Tease, taste, and take your time. Experiment, enjoy, and, most importantly, have fun! Until next time, lovers—keep it sexy, keep it playful. 😘